Eight Tips for Effective Cocktail Conversation
by, Etiquette International
"A gossip is one who talks to you about others; a bore is one who talks to you about himself; and a brilliant man is one who talks to you about yourself." (Lisa Kirk)
Listen before jumping into a conversation. You may not want to deal with those people.
Make eye contact with one person in the group, smile and listen until they include you.
Introduce yourself when there is a pause in the conversation.
If you have something relevant to add to a group's conversation, jump in, then introduce yourself afterward.
To initiate a conversation, you can talk about the situation, talk about yourself, or talk about the other person.
Avoid taboo topics:
- off-color or discriminatory jokes
- personal relationships and sexual proclivities
- personal tragedies
- cost of anything personal
- controversial topics like politics or religion
- free advice from professionals
Don't blend; circulate. Spend five to seven minutes with each person or group.
Always remember to close a conversation. Shake hands and take your leave.
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